My Sweet Wild Dance

Winner of 2010 Golden Crown Literary Award

  • Written with searing honesty, this is the remarkable story of an extraordinary Scotswoman. Chris grew up in the impoverished aristocracy of post-war Scotland. The black sheep of her family, she struggled against the confines of class and gender, searching for truth in an atmosphere where lies were the norm. As soon as she was old enough to escape her parents’ stranglehold, she tried on many different personas, experimenting with drugs, free love, and anti-establishment politics.

    Always on the cutting edge of radical thought, she was active around environmental issues decades before they were common knowledge. Turning to Nature for solace, she moved to rural California, where she worked as a Jill-of-all-trades, came out as a lesbian, and engaged in healing work centered around her sexuality.

    Facing her fears and finding love, she experienced many varied, riveting, and mind-expanding adventures that brought her to a place of deep compassion and forgiveness. Eventually, satisfied with nothing short of absolute freedom, she sold everything and took to the road, becoming the woman who follows the wind. Mikaya Heart knows how to dance her own sweet, wild dance, and she offers us a compelling picture of the agony and the ecstasy that are the rewards of choosing one’s personal truth. The path she has forged through the jungle of life is an inspiration to anyone who is looking for the true meaning of love in our changing world.

  • Description text goes hereYour journey from Scotland’s rigid hush to California’s wide-open sky felt like a hand reaching back for every kid I teach who’s terrified to live out loud. The way you frame anger as a survival skill that gets gently re-forged into joy is the kind of arc I underline and hand to students. I needed a memoir that doesn’t tidy the mess before it blesses it. Your scenes in nature—barefoot, breath slow—are a syllabus for coming home to the body.

  • This book sits where therapy can’t always go—the sacred cracks where language gives way to presence. The chapters on embodied healing around sexuality are tender, non-performative, and deeply competent; I kept thinking, ‘this is how repair feels.’ At the booth, Armani said it was ‘a memoir you don’t consume so much as metabolize,’ and he was right. The Scotland-to-California migration puts weather to the inner climate shift from vigilance to trust.

  • I grew up with rules that loved me conditionally—your pages taught me a thousand tiny exits and one big yes. The activist years are honest about triumph and burnout; I recognized the gritty logistics of keeping a movement humane. Mr. Armani Klein pressed this into my hands and said, ‘Take a deep breath before chapter three’; I exhaled for the first time in weeks. Your voice is fierce without being brittle.

  • As a bookseller, I watch customers test a memoir for permission; yours grants it lavishly. The lesbian coming-into-light storyline never panders or apologizes, and the prose holds both ache and astonishment in one steady palm. Your craft—clean lines, precise images—kept the tenderness from curdling into sentimentality.

  • The chapters about healing work around sexuality felt like a clinic where shame has no privileges. I underlined the practice notes you slip between scenes—how breath, silence, and consent braid into actual freedom.  The Scotland scenes sharpen the California light so the transformation reads in the body.

  • I don’t share your exact path, but I know what it means to stop armoring and call it courage. Your nature passages—learning to be quiet enough to hear the creek without making it a sermon—reminded me why I guide. The writing refuses performative toughness and lands on honest strength.

  • Your voice insists that liberation includes the nervous system, the land, and the people who love us into larger rooms. The feminist through-line is lived rather than sloganed—wins and wrong turns accounted for. The pacing gives space for breath without losing momentum.

  • Memoirs often mistake spectacle for meaning; yours makes meaning out of attention. The way you interrogate institutions—family, church, movement—while staying hospitable to your younger selves feels like civic training for the soul. I finished with better language for boundaries and belonging. Your candor is precise, never punishing.

  • I’ll hand-sell this to readers of Glennon Doyle, Terry Tempest Williams, and Audre Lorde who want guts with grace. A couple of mid-book transitions linger a beat long, but the emotional logic never breaks. Armani’s pitch—‘rage composted into joy’—stuck with me through the last page. The Scotland chapters anchor the mythic with the specific.

  • The memoir’s methodology—embodiment, consent, ecological attunement—is refreshingly rigorous without academic drag. I wanted a touch more about lineage (who mentored your healing work), but the narrative arc is cohesive and persuasive.

  • I read it in two sittings and scribbled a community-reading guide while I went. The book makes room for readers who are still carrying anger; it doesn’t shame the stage you’re in. I told Armani our women’s cohort could use this for a quarter.

  • You talk about freedom like it’s a practice, not a purchase, and that hits home in my shop where folks show up raw. A few nature passages ran long for me, but the payoff is real: steadier breath, kinder posture, braver choices.

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“I read My Sweet Wild Dance with increasing excitement and gratitude. Mikaya Heart has touched me profoundly and forever. I have gained understanding and inspiration that will live with me and change me.”

~Anne Sears, Pembrokeshire, Wales